Re: I dont know how i should handle the pain![]()
Posted by Tammy on 1/24/09
On 1/16/09, Rachel wrote:
> i am having a home birth. at my house. i dont want any
> drugs. and this is my first baby. im 8 months pregnant. im
> 21. and my husband is so lovely and sweet. but the on
> thing im scared about having this baby is the pain. and i
> cant stand it when im in pain. and i would hate my husband
> to see me in pain. any ideas on how i should handle the
> pain.
My only advice is to keep every option open. If the pain
gets to be too much have the option of pain relief, and
don't think that you are a failure. My friend went through
a natural birth, not by choice, and she said that she would
bever do it again. I have had two kids and a natural birth
was never an option for me.